>You used it to to counter her point.

I used it to encourage her to reconsider her stance that she probably wouldn't marry, nothing more.

It's propbably a good
>quote, but did nothing to go against what she said.

Ok, first you have a problem with the quote because Com has a baby out of wedlock. Now you have a problem with it because it didn't counter her argument effectivley? Maybe you should have just stayed out of it, since i wasn't talking to you in the first place.

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