All I'm saying is that I understand the premise of her song and that she went about it the wrong way. She was simply trying to big up single mothers. What's wrong with that? Not everyone is going be perfect, get married and have a white picket fence. What's the big deal with being married. A lot of kids that are fucked up come from two parent homes. It's just not single parent homes. I came from a single parent household and I'm in college. More than half the people I know in college came from single parent households. i don't see u addressing why these mothers are single? They didn't get pregnant by themselves. Where are the fathers? They don't have to marry the women, but they can still be around.