many times one night stands spring fling just in it for sex and then a child pops up. I am not saying it is cool at all for men to step away from a women and their child but is it not lazy and trifling for women who abort children out of these same relationships based on nothing but falsehood and sex.

You have to look at both sides women especially black women chose to drop their motherly duties all the time it is called abortions.