Birthing babies is wonderful no matter the situation. However, birthing babies and the casual attitude I see both women and men take as it relates to sex is both shameful and sad. Young girls are looking at women AND men as far as what to learn about sex.

>Do our young girls need to hear that? NO!! They need to hear
>that having a child out of wedlock is a SHAMEFUL thing, it
>makes your life much harder than it needs to be, and leads to
>all kinds of problems for the child, the "baby's mama", and
>the community.

As the child of a divorced, single Black mother I disagree.