>buy it...if you're gonna say >that women have been given >the label by society. that >they have to stay home...can't >you agree then, that men >have also been give the >label that i escribed(cold hearted >insensitive?)

I agree that men have at times been given that label, but the point is that both parents (if possible) should have a concern for raising that child and should equally participate in it. My point was that the general assumption that a woman should stay home and a man should work does not fit for me. I think that the choice should be made by either, and both owe the same amount of caring and concern to the child.


Fletch