you got it all mixed up....the man is supposed to support and help raise the child...but the childs main care giver...especially when the child is young....becuz of the makeup...women are blessed w/ a caring nature...that sorry to say...most men are not...that doesn't mean the men shouldn't try...but i was replying to say that a women doesn't have to stay at home anymore than a man does which i agree to except if there is a newborn child, which in that case i don't see the mother ditching her child to go to work to leave her husband which society has labeled as insensitive and coldhearted...to take care of her newborn...i don't buy it...if you're gonna say that women have been given the label by society. that they have to stay home...can't you agree then, that men have also been give the label that i described(cold hearted insensitive?) i don't know i just don't think we see the same way...
peace
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dave