I really feel that you need to read what I was talking about. Sounds like you got some issues (no disrespect) with women, relationship wise. What I'm talking about is how black men and women need to start talking, and stop worrying about what we can't do. Trueenough, the human factor comes into play, but we can't just keep on using that. We can't advance if we just think that it's no hope and no way to start dialect with one another. If you are tired of Chicken Heads and what ever negative attitude men and women have toward each other than lets talk about it be it negative or positive. We need to start the healing process, and it starts with a open and HONEST dialect. Not just some damn excusses.