I don't expect you to feel the way alot of black people feel in regards to interracial relationships because it is personal with alot of us and it extends to the collective, but can you see where we are coming from given the position we are currently in, our history, and the route we are going? This isn't about us judging your marriage. We (black people) have serious issues and relationships between black men and women are at the heart of those issues. Comparisons and logic bouts aren't going to negate our problems.