Real or authentic love/power comes from self. It's internal...romance is external and often temporary. When I look in his eyes I want not to see his love for me but his love for himself, his spirit. Attachment is psychological but it's not permanent.

>why in the fuck would women want to have
>relationships with men as men have been there oppressors oh
>goin on how long now

Many people want to get with other people for companionship, so it doesn't matter what is going on outside...