>Actually I was just being funny about the tongue wagging
>part. As far as your "exploring options" comment I don't
>agree with it and it's not due to lack of evolving on my
>part, I more so attribute it to maybe some "giving up" on
>your part.

Not giving up but living life. If at some point along the way I fall for a Black guy then so be it but I am not limiting my options when I don't even know what's coming my way.

>I've heard so many cases of women saying there
>are not brothas left or they are all dating white women so i
>will do the same.

You'll never hear me say this. What other people do or choose is not for me to judge.

> I have problems with this attitude, I
>don't tell anybody who to date but I feel how I feel for
>valid reasons. Black men and women are a unit as far as I am
>concerned. When we abandon each other then we cease to
>exist. If one leg is bad the good leg has to be strong
>enough for the bad leg until it gets better, if both legs
>are incapable then we just stand still and rot.

I think many Black people have not yet come to grips with the consequences of the middle passage. Our souls we're damaged, we lost a great deal, both on the African soil and in the West. I allow myself to hope for a day when the choices people make are for the betterment of their families and communities but seeing how the rift between the lower income and higher income widens and how fragmented our folks are it'll be a miracle if I can even find the spiritual partner I seek. I am always optimistic...