distinguish, for me, between "external policy" and "mechanics"? (and please refrain from romanticizing it.)

what person doesn't carefully choose housing (or whatever)?

i remember when i was applying to colleges if the Black population was less than 6% the school automatically did not make my short list. i live in queens and there are certain sections that i'd never think of moving to namely Ozone Park, Howard Beach, Bell Harbor, Bayside, etc.

i'm still not seeing how you don't see the political dynamics with your relationship.

peace.