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21466, RE: you may want to remember what you write
Posted by guest, Fri Aug-25-00 10:11 AM
OKAY LET'S JUST START BY SAYING THAT I AM IN NO WAY TALKING ABOUT THE TEENAGED MOMS THAT ARE HANDLIN' THEIR BUSINESS (NUFF RESPECT TO THEM)...BUT IN THE CASES WHERE THEY ARE NOT (AND I SEE THIS EVERYDAY) A LOT OF THEM DO NOT FINISH HIGH SCHOOL OR GET A GED OR WHATEVER AND DON'T GET ME WRONG FOR SAYING THIS BUT SOME HAVE COME TO RELY ON WELFARE TO FEED AND CLOTHE THEIR CHILDREN (AND IT'S NOT THAT MUCH MONEY AT ALL) AND THAT'S FINE IF YOU NEED THE HELP BUT THEIR IS A TIME WHEN U HAVE TO GET UP AND DO FOR YOU AND YOURS AND NOT JUST SETTLE. I HAVE A FRIEND (OF 14 YEARS) THAT HAD HER CHILD WHEN SHE WAS 16 AND SHE NEVER (LIKE SOME) WENT BACK TO GET HER GED AND YET HER DAUGHTER HAS SEEN MORE MEN COME IN AND OUT OF HER LIFE THAN INCOME AND THAT'S SAD. NOT SAYING THAT IT'S WRONG TO DATE SOMEONE OTHER THAN YO BABY DADDY BUT SOME THINGS YOUR KIDS DON'T HAVE TO SEE. THEIR ARE SOME YOUNG GIRLS THAT HAVE GOOD SENSE AND USE DISCRETION BUT THERE ARE SOME THAT DON'T. I'VE SEEN YOUNG GIRLS ENCOURAGING THEIR KIDS TO CUSS (BECAUSE THEY THINK IT'S CUTE) I DON'T UNDERSTAND IT. YOU KNOW NAHYMSA MAYBE IT'S NOT A LACK OF MORALITY AND VALUES MAYBE IT'S A LACK OF BEING ABLE TO ENJOY YOUR YOUTH AND SOME GIRLS STILL WANT TO DO THAT WHEN THEY HAVE A CHILD (WHICH ISN'T WRONG) BUT YOU HAVE TO WATCH WHAT YOU DO. IS IT IMMORAL TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE? A LOT OF FOLKS SAY SO AND THE DUDE WHO POSTED THE "MORALITY" COMMENT IS PROBABLY HAVING PREMARITAL SEX BUT JUST BECAUSE HE DIDN'T KNOCK SOMEONE UP IN HIGH SCHOOL DOESN'T MEAN HE'S MORE OF AN UPSTANDING MORAL CITIZEN THAN SOMEONE WHO DID> I'M NOT SURE IF YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I'M GETTIN AT LEMME KNOW.