18477, i like women Posted by BooDaah, Thu Jan-11-01 08:22 AM
>I mean do you still admit >to liking the parts that >you shun.
sure pretty is pretty. ass is good. blah, blah, blah.
on the other hand i also like to see people admired for more than what they look like.
personally, i've met/been with/seen TONS of physically attractive women who (in my opinion) had little else or were lacking in other areas i feel are JUST AS important -- if not more. therefore, i'm no longer impressed by look alone.
going back to the point of videos and such
i like videos that have a little more depth than "lets parade a buch of buts past the camera". particularly at a time when the large majority of hihhop video have little more than that.
>I mean- you say you dont >want to just see her >ass -
did i say that?
>but are you >saying you no longer like >ass or that you must >control yourself in that fashion >so as not to endorse >that pathology?
i'm saying that if reducing and female to only her ass is a disservice to her and me.
>Does watching a video- or even >liking it count as such >a sanction or taking part?
i think so
>if so does denying that >you like it resolve that?
not necessarily. on the other hand, if i get tired of booty videos all the time -- the easiest thing is to not watch them
>Can you condition yourself not >to like it?
one could i guess, but i have no desire to in this case
>but can you witness >things as part of that >greater reality?
sure
>Do you have to see a shaking ass >beyond its supposed detriment to >enjoy it- can you accept >the negativty that is involved >with it yet appreciate it >for its positivity?
one can do/justify however one wants. personally, i DO think that there are ramifications to a constant parade of materialism, sexuality.
to answer your last question, i guess it goes back to weighing the positive vs. the negative. in other words, which is more important: getting my jollies from seeing a behind (and whatever other positives may exist) or any damage that may result from that image being shown.
>When you say "certain" things are >you meaning things that you >find detrimental or negative?
what are you talking about here, i'm losing you
>If so when you insist that >there is nothing positive about >it
did i say that?
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