I mean do you still admit to liking the parts that you shun.

I mean- you say you dont want to just see her ass - but are you saying you no longer like ass or that you must control yourself in that fashion so as not to endorse that pathology?

Does watching a video- or even liking it count as such a sanction or taking part? if so does denying that you like it resolve that? Can you condition yourself not to like it?

You say you can no longer "witness certain things beyond the affect it may have on ME, the culture i'm in, etc." but can you witness things as part of that greater reality? Do you have to see a shaking ass beyond its supposed detriment to enjoy it- can you accept the negativty that is involved with it yet appreciate it for its positivity?

When you say "certain" things are you meaning things that you find detrimental or negative? If so when you insist that there is nothing positive about it- are you really broadening your perspective at all?

K