I still have work to do in this area. I'm not clear what to do in all situations when I am not being treated the way I feel I deserve to be treated by a man, in relationships, and sometimes in friendships too. Sometimes I feel like, well, I can't change the other person, I can only change me. So what do I do, stop talking to EVERYbody???



>>I
>will not get involved with
>men who try to destroy
>or break me down (won't
>happen), whether it's my self-esteem
>or self-image or my peace
>of mind. I don't
>even have to worry about
>it now. I am
>free of all that.


"Don't Hate the PLAYA Boy...hate the GAME," Granddad Freeman of the Boondocks(7-11-99)

*Twenty-three percent of women are "autoerotic singles" — they prefer to achieve sexual satisfaction alone(source-bet.com)

*If U have won a Grammy, one of two things are at play: 1. Your shit is TIGHT
2. U are white
-(Me)

"'Cuz U answer the phone 'peace' that means U not a freak?"-The Questions(c) Common