10200, good question: Posted by Utamaroho, Tue Nov-06-01 06:01 PM
i'll ask some parents that i think have done a good job...
i think a good foundation should be established and then "letting" go, so to speak.sort of like the bow and arrow example i gave in the first response...
personally though: i suspect myself to be a totalitarian parent. a dictator of sorts. but that's me now, i will probably change depending on some examples i see. one of my mentors is along hte "raising a warrior" mentality and did a good job with his daughter, i'll consult him.
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