definitely.
Though the systems that we live in put pressure on us, ultimately it's our own decision...with VERY few exceptions (like children born to drug addicted mothers).
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"You might as well pay attention/ you can't afford free speech" -George Clinton

"People need to stop saying that there is one way to be--and then the issue will disappear." Ntozake Shange-interview in _Mother_ _Jones_

All human beings are ugly.