13760, That is so deep Posted by ya Setshego, Wed May-23-01 09:27 AM
2 me. Please tell us more. I am learning so much from what U R posting here b/c my father was certainly no prize, but I guess he wasn't the WORST father in the world either(or at least that's what my mother tells me). I have had a LifeLong battle w/ reconciling my feelings about him and the way he treated my mother, the way he behaved in general, and most importantly, the way he treated me. So I tend 2 attract men who have his best qualities, but some have his worst qualities 2, which R TOTALLY unacceptable 2 me. I have not been able 2 run away nor escape that, although I've employed a myriad of methods in attempt 2 do so. U seem 2 have found that "way out", which intrigues me. Even though U were not directly abused, being witness 2 it was psychological abuse, "I" say. So, U were subjected 2, and affected by it 2. But U freed Urself from it. There has 2 be more 2 Ur liberation than what U have stated. I for one would appreciate it if U could elaborate further. U R being quite informative/instructive.
peace.
I was >able to get involved with >men who were not like >my father. If anything, >I bounce back from adversity. > I am resilient but >I chose my path and >I feel at peace. > >>are the Ultimate Survivor. >> >> >> >> >>"Don't Hate the PLAYA Boy...hate the >>GAME," Granddad Freeman of the >>Boondocks(7-11-99) >> >>*Twenty-three percent of women are "autoerotic >>singles" — they prefer to >>achieve sexual satisfaction alone(source-bet.com) >> >>*If U have won a Grammy, >>one of two things are >>at play: 1. Your shit >>is TIGHT >> >> >> >> 2. >>U are white >>-(Me) >> >>"'Cuz U answer the phone 'peace' >>that means U not a >>freak?"-The Questions(c) Common > > >"Know thyself" > >"Let your conduct be without covetousness; >be content with such things >as you have. For >He Himself has said, "I >will never leave you or >forsake you". So we may >boldly say, "The Lord is >my helper, I will not >fear. What can man >do to me?" >-- Hebrews 13:5,6 > >"There is a difference between knowing >the path and walking the >path" >--Morpheus in "The Matrix" > >"It's our choices, Harry, that show >what we truly are, far >more than our abilities"- Dumbledore >to Harry Potter "Chamber of >Secrets"
"Don't Hate the PLAYA Boy...hate the GAME," Granddad Freeman of the Boondocks(7-11-99)
*Twenty-three percent of women are "autoerotic singles" — they prefer to achieve sexual satisfaction alone(source-bet.com)
*If U have won a Grammy, one of two things are at play: 1. Your shit is TIGHT 2. U are white -(Me)
"'Cuz U answer the phone 'peace' that means U not a freak?"-The Questions(c) Common
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