my friend wrote me back and here is what he said: Nancy Brady was her name. One of their grandparents is black. Which one I don't remember. I'll tell the story again in Rabat. During the Superbowl!

so maybe it's a grandma, maybe not. it would actually be easier if it was a grandfather but it almost assuredly will not be.

I can't find a pic of nancy brady. i read she lives in boston. she is older than tom and she played catcher for the high school team in san mateo during the early ninties.

if any boston area okps can give us some more intel i'm sure we can sort this out. i admit it, my google skills have eroded over the years. who has that lexus nexis hookup?