this was truth...i needed to read that...kinda like...cheering me on for the path i've (finally!) decided to take...

>I hate to see a girl stress out about a guy when
>her main focus should be herself. Because of certain
>instances in my life, I tell myself, "If it's meant to be,
>then it will be"...and that's the way it goes ladies....we
>can't force a path that isn't meant for us to walk down. If
>a 3 ton brick is in the way....don't be so foolish and try
>to move it....go another way. I know it's easier said than
>done but the fact is that...it can be done. Love shouldn't
>be complicated or problematic. I mean everyone has problems
>in relationships but there is only so much that a person
>should have to deal with.

the palms of my hands were raw from trying to push this big huge boulder outta my way to solve things...

now i've got some band-aids!