I step forward as one who has refrained from posting because of this- but you are 100% right...instead of pushing fam away it's better to plant more flowers and hope the weeds leave ::wow eff a sad attempt to be poetic:: Thanks for the words of wisdom though, Angie <img src="http://www.okayplayer.com/dcforum/Images/happy.gif"><P>*LaDie MeCCa*<P>"Banks wanna thank me 'cause my statements are prodigious, style's so prestigious, make a sinner act religious"-- Lauryn Hill