melaninmama, sanifu, my lady, i've always valued your presence on these boards whether i've agreed with you or not. i gotta tell ya then, my man scratch n sniff wasn't tryin to play like racism doesn't exist. he wasn't tryin to play like it's not a problem. but i believe he was TRYIN to say that who anybody on here decides to screw is their business, and who anybody on here falls in love with shouldn't have to have a color qualification first. the only true way to overcome hate is with love. and while people may see color and race, love (in my opinion) does not.<P><a href="http://www.thehungersite.com">http://www.thehungersite.com<;/a><P>KRH-ONE (nine-nine-nine): the ORIGINAL and ONLY OkayKoolKeith<P>"if it wasnt for hip hop id probally die"<BR> -DaZeD<P>"Where the F*CK is my purse icon??????"