D'Angelo said on MTV Jams that he was not getting head. He said something like he was feeling his music..on a spiritual thing. Some may want to think he was getting head. But why would he show it in the video?? That would be showing off. The way some of these females act towards him (And don't even listen to what the music is trying to say), he wouldn't even have to show in the video the fact that he can get head whenever he so pleases.