>end up being about black women and their flawed perception of
>black men

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as if black women are somehow completely irrational
>and out of touch with reality.

i dont think this is suggested at all but...
that the ideology behind the phrase is typically at the very least partially faulty, i dont think that can be argued.

i don't think that anyone disagrees that there's definitely basis for the idea but... whether its complete enough to warrant the erratic damning that usually occurs when it's used in general conversation, thats in question

>and i'm not one to use the term "good black man" but something
>about the tone of this post bothers me as much as the term in
>question does.