If you look above, my comments have absolutely nothing to do with this woman who I don't know. My responses simply offer a logical counterpoint to you question.

Someone says I want to meet a good black man. You ask what that means. I say that I've always interpeted such statements to reflect on the person making the statement and I'm assuming something about that person? Wow.

Really, you should open your mind to the idea that every comment that someone makes might, just might, have something to do with the person making the comment.