only thing that is certain is that you are going to die... I wish it was an 'cultural' imperative in the Western world,that we are prepared better for this inevitability. It's almost like folks think we are going to live forever...

However we can & do make choices on how we navigate these years on earth and also on how we depart, and 3rd I unequivocally made her choice... so all those in this post who are blaming themselves, stop, there was nothing you could of done...

I for one, will CHOOSE to remember what her presence on here brought to my experience of the boards and will have positive memories of our interactions.

Ultimately, she was looking for that peace that we are, all looking for... maybe she found it, isn't that a blessing????


Hetep -u 3rd I/Nikki