for me there is a point though where i say no more.

there is a ppoint of no return. maybe he put his hands on me- maybe he cheated- maybe he just ignored me-

i can't ever call it- but it's like i am being pushed and pushed and pushed till finally i cross the line and when i do- i do not ever go back the way i came.

but before that happens- my last relationship i think we broke up every month. i knew i didn't want to be there...but every time he came back to me looking for another chance i wd give it to him- till one day he actually violated me physically and that's when i decided it was over.

i cdn't look past that. i mean and he cheated on me- before it's been that he ignored me and that was like a two year relationship...

i mean for me it's the line that i hvae to be pushed over- once there i'm out...sayonara!