i've come to a realization.....i know all too well that i don't need a man to feel complete, but I do WANT someone to share my life with....and i've run into the ones that don't understand, i WANT you in my life not out of NEED but out of DESIRE.


plus...i'm willing to accept a "traditional" wife role, if he is willing to accept a "traditional" husband role. you can't expect me to meet a certain standard and you can't meet me there.

example: i dated a man that wanted his wife to stay home and raise a family, i have no problems with people who choose to do that, but realize that due to the cost of living....it will be a stretch to live off a lower income, and he was halfway hearing me on that issue.