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Topic subjectone of the hardest things for me is letting a man be a man
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93134, one of the hardest things for me is letting a man be a man
Posted by wray, Tue May-02-06 03:01 PM
its always the little things, like
asking for help if i need it
or trusting him to do something as well as
i would.

i simply have always enjoyed being 'equal' with men
in ways that not all men appreciate.
from sports to lifting to soldiering, i was always
>< there. my boys/fellow soldiers loved it.

but it dosent work well in relationships.
men dont generally feel 'needed' around me.

i dont know if i should 'tone down' for the sake of
feelings or just do me and accept that the majority
of men may not appreciate it.

i only really seem to connect with type A men that
get that i'm type A as well. and that me being strong
doesnt detract from them.


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