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93134, one of the hardest things for me is letting a man be a man Posted by wray, Tue May-02-06 03:01 PM
its always the little things, like asking for help if i need it or trusting him to do something as well as i would.
i simply have always enjoyed being 'equal' with men in ways that not all men appreciate. from sports to lifting to soldiering, i was always >< there. my boys/fellow soldiers loved it.
but it dosent work well in relationships. men dont generally feel 'needed' around me.
i dont know if i should 'tone down' for the sake of feelings or just do me and accept that the majority of men may not appreciate it.
i only really seem to connect with type A men that get that i'm type A as well. and that me being strong doesnt detract from them.
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