>Your "preference" is irrelevant at someone else's life event
>lol

Yup

>If someone invited you and your wife to a cocktail party in
>the evening would you expect to able to bring your kid to
>that?

I’m not a white. So no. Wouldn’t even entertain it. Wouldn’t even want to.
Meanwhile this is a daytime event

A better parallel would be if someone ASKED me to bring my kid so that other kids would have some company, I’d also feel off put by that. She’s her own person and doesn’t exist just as a prop to shed or not.