210078, Nobody is missing anything. None of that is relevant. Posted by Cold Truth, Mon Feb-10-20 03:37 PM
> >#1 Sometimes it isn't exactly easy to find a sitter.
That sounds like a personal problem.
("Then >Don't go!")...well yeah, but if its someone you're close with >then its pretty shitty.
Kinda sucks, but again- that's your problem.
Especially if there is pressure/guilt >to go from those getting married. Can't take it personal when >folks decline an invite to your highly regulated wedding...
These are caveats that do have relevance to a specific situation, but still... if you can't find a sitter, that's your problem, and such is life.
>#2 I've literally never been to a "kids allowed" wedding that >the kids negatively impacted the shit. Folks in here acting >like kids turn that shit into Chuck-e-cheese.
This is 100% irrelevant.
>#3 I think its kind of entertaining to watch a couple try to >make their wedding day some perfectly controlled event. I've >also never known such a couple to last *shrugs*
Also irrelevant.
>#4 Those adults that, for some reason, strongly require time >with "no kids" just have to wait till like 9 when the most of >us dirty, filthy breeders go home. > > >But yeah, I'm always skeptical of the longevity of any couple >trying to put on the perfect/ideal/borderline choreographed >wedding. The shit aint prom. Yeah put on the wedding you >want but at some point grow the fuck up. Its just a day.
All of this sounds like you rationalizing, trying to justify your selfish desire for the married couple to cater to you, and not themselves.
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