You engage in a wa that suggests that you've taken a course/seminar/ etc that teaches a very rigid do/don't, if/then format.

Your approach conveys adherence to some sort of "5 steps to engage with unbelievers", or some similar step-by-step instruction. I know for a fact you've tried at least one well-known tact, that was so egregious and obvious I literally laughed out loud before calling you out on it. X

I'm sure you engage like a thoughtful human being when you're in a bubble of self affirmation, but outside of that, you just don't have the ability or desire.

You do not genuinely respond directly to with the things people actually say. You ignore or dismiss wholesale everything that doesn't fit you're preconceptions, and redirect in a way that indicates intent to control the discussion, rather then participate.

You asked a question I've directly, clearly answered, twice.

You're an unfortunate example of deep-rooted indoctrination in action.