>that it's easier to date white.

IF this theory applies to you. It's called a theory, and most theories are unproven. Comment on its plausibility, but stop trying to turn it into something I personally adhere to.

Healing is hard. People can date all kinds of people in an attempt to hide from themselves. Living unhealed is harder, from my experience.

>When you add up all the costs and benefits, I don't think that
>is true.
>
>Which I think you came to the same conclusion if you found
>that you couldn't continue dating a "perfectly good" white
>boy.

What's with the quotes dude? I didn't say that. WHO are you quoting?