Go back to previous topic
Forum nameGeneral Discussion Archives
Topic subjectI hear you but your descriptive sounds prescriptive if you are observing
Topic URLhttp://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=18&topic_id=203427&mesg_id=203475
203475, I hear you but your descriptive sounds prescriptive if you are observing
Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Wed Oct-12-16 12:57 PM
that it's easier to date white.

When you add up all the costs and benefits, I don't think that is true.

Which I think you came to the same conclusion if you found that you couldn't continue dating a "perfectly good" white boy.



>>in the discussion of dating black people?
>>
>>IDK. It sounds like you are saying it's hard to date black
>>because of the unhealed trauma associated with the black
>>experience.
>>
>
>"Hard to date Black?"
>It's hard to parent Black. It's hard to work Black. It's hard
>to drive Black.
>It's hard to BE Black
>
>But MOST OF US do it.
>
>What I'm saying is, if rather than healing, a Black person
>wanted escape the trauma on a superficial level, dating
>someone who doesn't look like the people you associate w/
>these experiences is easiest.
>
>I'm saying I get it. Again, I'm not posing this as a
>suggestion. How could you possible think I was?
>


**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"