203475, I hear you but your descriptive sounds prescriptive if you are observing Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Wed Oct-12-16 12:57 PM
that it's easier to date white.
When you add up all the costs and benefits, I don't think that is true.
Which I think you came to the same conclusion if you found that you couldn't continue dating a "perfectly good" white boy.
>>in the discussion of dating black people? >> >>IDK. It sounds like you are saying it's hard to date black >>because of the unhealed trauma associated with the black >>experience. >> > >"Hard to date Black?" >It's hard to parent Black. It's hard to work Black. It's hard >to drive Black. >It's hard to BE Black > >But MOST OF US do it. > >What I'm saying is, if rather than healing, a Black person >wanted escape the trauma on a superficial level, dating >someone who doesn't look like the people you associate w/ >these experiences is easiest. > >I'm saying I get it. Again, I'm not posing this as a >suggestion. How could you possible think I was? >
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