in the discussion of dating black people?

IDK. It sounds like you are saying it's hard to date black because of the unhealed trauma associated with the black experience.



>until healing takes place, we either repeat patterns or
>reject all aspects of these traumatic experiences. Sometimes
>we do both.
>
>Most people navigate this world unconscious of their pain and
>repeating patterns. This isn't exclusive to Black people.


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