>emotionally when it comes to dating.
>
>Black women just tend to keep dating Black men and repeat
>harmful patterns, while (some) Black men just opt out of
>dating Black women. Not even consciously.


Is the suggestion that after being in a harmful relationship with a black person people should break the pattern by dating outside their race? Why wouldn't they date a black person who isn't toxic? Why would dating one bad black person affect my decision to date other black people going forward?

Again, I could be confused but it really sounds like you are saying black people should date outside their race to break the pattern of abuse that comes with black relationships.

Please tell me I read you wrong.




>
>Men are way more emotionally sensitive. I can still date Black
>men after being abused and assaulted by Black men, but being
>called "corny" by Black women will be enough to make some
>Black men defect. I also know Black women who date non-Black
>men b/c their blackness was always questioned by Black men.
>
>Someone made a post about people who date exclusively outside
>of their race and I said that if that's what they need to not
>project their issues on their mate, then by all means.
>
>Sometimes a change of scenery helps. It still doesn't make a
>difference to me though.


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