this is true, but I could see it as being microaggressive (if that's a word)

it's like when non-Blacks describe a neighborhood that is clearly Black (and locked in time) as "ghetto", "sketch" or whatever word they use to describe how dilapidated it is compared to somewhere else where the Geld to keep it well kept is plentiful (think the neighborhood in "Friday" vs. "The Wire")

yeah. PDA can be gross but it seemed more that the gayness of the kiss is what made them react more than the gross out part, and that's why dude's mad.

I would be too.