Dear white people, and by gay scenes I mean the two kisses that totaled together were about 20'seconds of the film

They were Black....( resisting the urge to put an 'of course' here)

But it was like ''eww"? Like they were 12. I wouldn't have been bothered if one had yelled out "that's sin!" At least that would've showed some conviction. This just shows that their basic asses were disgusted by it and uncomfortable. Keep that shit to ur self . The second time they did It I loudly said damn and turned around to see who it was

Silence.

My date was pissed at me tho cause he felt like I was about to make a scene

I don't care if u hate gays to the core just keep that shit to urself when u in a damn movie theater. I didn't pay money to be insulted.

but yeah, it's bush league

look away during gay kisses, or male nudity (which is nearly never peen, almost always ass cheeks).

I'm straight, it's not appealing to me, but it's not so visceral that I need to look away. Seems so immature to me.

and disruptive with their displeasure and someone not wanting to watch someone naked/involved in acts of affection.

No one is obligated to find anyone else attractive/want to watch them do sexual things

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it's about not being mature enough to see a man's butt cheeks for 3 seconds with out your hands flying up to shield your face.

It's about being able to watch the gore of the walking dead, but as soon as two dudes are kissing, you can't handle it.

I don't "want" to see those things, but shit... I have butt cheeks. I kiss people.

It seems doesn't seem better one way or the other. How one visibly reacts won't change how one feels inwardly. Why should they be more mature for you or anyone else?

>It's about being able to watch the gore of the walking dead,
>but as soon as two dudes are kissing, you can't handle it.

I have often joked that I'll rather see surprise gay porn than gore under any circumstance

I can forget having seen the porn
the gore... you can't unsee

but the world at large doesn't owe your their personal sensibilities.

they were watching a film
not your specific life.
they were entitled to their reaction
however imbecile-like.

two men kissing will ALWAYS disgust some ppl.
you shoulda tongued down your date with a wink thrown at em.
they prolly woulda moved. :-)

My issue is being voiced and the double standard in the mix cause if someone white in that theater had said "this fucking nigger movie" that woulda been a whole different issue

Maybe ur right tho. It was a scene showing something I do on a regular basis and I think it's not only fine but great and for someone to say eww is bothersome

>My issue is being voiced and the double standard in the mix
>cause if someone white in that theater had said "this fucking
>nigger movie" that woulda been a whole different issue

So did you hear them say "this f****t movie"? because if you didn't its not the same.

Something similar would be and interracial seen and someone saying "Eww"

> "this fucking nigger movie"

are very different, no?

And to legs never forget that I'm Blacl as well as gay so don't try to dictate or criticize wtf I say as a Black man

I just woulda been likewise angry and insulted if something similar was done towards Black folks but besides what I said those two ewws went unchecked

People say ewww when they see someone eating a booger picked from their nose too.

How should a gay man feel when the idea of him kissing another man evokes the same expression from other people?

Come ON!!!!!!

i completely understand him being offended.

i simply said i didn't think his examples were congruent. he agreed, btw.

your feelings were in no way wrong.

but some ppl don't know how to manage their discomfort.
lotta uncomfortable ppl out in public making spectacles of themselves.
that doesn't change.

for a 12 year old saying ewww to shit is just fun.

if they were boys they would have said eewww to any and all kissing straight, gay, white on dog, whatever.

yeah it's dumb and insensitive but I don't know may people that age who aren't.

if they were adults, sure make a scene, better yet make out real sloppy right in front of them, but tweens by default are assholes.

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I read the OP wrong. they weren't 12 just acting like it. eff them bees

i'm taking they were of age.

I somehow read that as "they were Like 12" instead of "Like they were 12"

yeah, fuck them

and dyslexia.

Not actually 12

Tickets

By something that they think is nasty.

Oh. OK.

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And basic adult respect level.

My last reply to u in this post btw

And BTW Most people find gay movie scenes to be devoid of Human Decency.

How does that shoe feel, they one you keep trying to not fit in?


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jesus like
youre a fucking troll

>And BTW Most people find gay movie scenes to be devoid of
>Human Decency.

I'm stating a known fact regarding peoples responses.

But if you want to make that your cause, then go forward.


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>And BTW Most people find gay movie scenes to be devoid of
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>How does that shoe feel, they one you keep trying to not fit
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The lack of TRUE Critical Thinking in this place is very troublesome.

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probably an old family circus with no words on it.

>probably an old family circus with no words on it.


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Case_One wants to come on here pretending to be some heavyweight.

Fuck outta here you ignorant relic of a cultist.

I can't believe you honestly think Jesus would approve of some of the shit you come out with.

People find it gross to watch other folks kiss dogs in the mouth. Some say it's nothing wrong with that. Some think it's nasty.


I bet you wouldn't kiss a girl in the mouth right after she just finished kissing another guy to her left. So people kind that gross too.


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>People find it gross to watch other folks kiss dogs in the
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But I bet you want to make that an issue, huh?



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The issue is that you are so adhered to some weird perspective that you cant see why comparing gay people to domesticated canines is some foul shit to say

>The issue is that you are so adhered to some weird
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>domesticated canines is some foul shit to say
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You want to make the method the issue. So here you go. Some people find it nasty to watch other folks get Pissed on, but other's find it normal.

I noticed how you have nothing to say about the OP and his intolerance of the two youth.


Carry on. And have a Great Day.


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>I noticed how you have nothing to say about the OP and his
>intolerance of the two youth.

Like you know the word "intolerance" is bad, probably because you're (justifiably) accused of it daily, so you try to ascribe it to situations where it makes no sense, like being irritated by people making a vocal spectacle of themselves in a movie theatre.

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I don't think I'd give a shit, really.

When you think about it, the sight of most people kissing/fucking in real life IS fairly gross on some level.

this is true, but I could see it as being microaggressive (if that's a word)

it's like when non-Blacks describe a neighborhood that is clearly Black (and locked in time) as "ghetto", "sketch" or whatever word they use to describe how dilapidated it is compared to somewhere else where the Geld to keep it well kept is plentiful (think the neighborhood in "Friday" vs. "The Wire")

yeah. PDA can be gross but it seemed more that the gayness of the kiss is what made them react more than the gross out part, and that's why dude's mad.

I would be too.

but the explanation for *why* it is offensive that legsdiamond gave (and that I have heard from others, to be fair) is the part that smells like BS to me... the idea that people are genuinely hurt that other people are not turned on by the image of them making love.

Unless you're a professional porn star or actor, chances are that the sight of you personally making love IS pretty "ewwwwww" anyway... and most people know that too, I think.

Saying my love is wrong that has been seen in various parts of the world and in this country is tied to the reaction I have when someone says eww to to guys kissing when that's what it looks like when I kiss

This ain't preteen saying eww she has coodies

Maybe I'm acting a bit brand new just for convo.

>but the explanation for *why* it is offensive that
>legsdiamond gave (and that I have heard from others, to be
>fair) is the part that smells like BS to me... the idea that
>people are genuinely hurt that other people are not turned on
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i didn't see the scene.
but as described, it was a kiss.

not a penetration scene.
not a blow job.
a g or maybe pg-13 rated kiss.

it's probably not the act that grossed them out.
unless they are super-puritanical Christians, or squirmish 12 yr olds,
the fact that two humans kissing is not what grossed them out.

it's probably the fact that two dudes were kissing that grossed them out.
and what's more, there's a decent chance that it was more than the "grossness" of it
is not all that got them to vocalize their disapproval.

there is at least a reasonable chance that they also wanted
the entire theatre to know that they, as as straight ppl, disapproved of
this pearl clutching scene.

which is fine, really.


but nobody is asking ppl to get "turned on" by gay ppl kissing.



>Unless you're a professional porn star or actor, chances are
>that the sight of you personally making love IS pretty
>"ewwwwww" anyway... and most people know that too, I think.

I'm saying if someone said "ewwwwe, yuckieeee, that's a sin" if they saw a hetero couple kissing who wasn't married would get a WTF from me...

>I'm saying if someone said "ewwwwe, yuckieeee, that's a sin"
>if they saw a hetero couple kissing who wasn't married would
>get a WTF from me...

I thought we were just talking about people being grossed out.

>this is true, but I could see it as being microaggressive (if
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>the kiss is what made them react more than the gross out part,
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Definitely a microagression


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yeah, you might be right...

I wouldn't take it personally if someone said eeeewe to a black guy kissing a woman

As BP was saying....it's the context. Me and you don't get offended by people saying 'ew' about heterosexuality because it has no association with an established form of oppression that we experience. You'd really have to put the blinders on to think those two incidents are equivalents.

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and there is absolutely nothing that can be done to stop
some ppl from feeling ikky about the gay.

the only response is to say "fuck you, too,"
and keep it moving.

if somebody hasn't gotten beyond thinking gays are ikky by now,
they never will, because although ppl CAN change,
they usually don't so fuck it.


seeking affirmation (or even lack of contempt)
from ppl that will never like you is a fools errand.
(i mean the general you-- not you, specifically.
i am including myself in that you.)

because its been systematically desensiitzed by powerful media who indirectly control cultural norms. It's gotten to the point that any body that critiques homosexuality, now becomes the outsider.. smh

but on a base level, its pretty eggregious behavior. Up there with cannibalism, bestiality, etc IMO

>because its been systematically desensiitzed by powerful
>media who indirectly control cultural norms. It's gotten to
>the point that any body that critiques homosexuality, now
>becomes the outsider.. smh
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>but on a base level, its pretty eggregious behavior. Up there
>with cannibalism, bestiality, etc IMO



that's okay.
like i said, fuck you, too.

cannibalism?

ya can't.

Did you really just compare homosexuality to cannibalism and bestiality?

it compels all males to be desensitized to a whole portfolio of gay-ass gay shit

LMAO

>because its been systematically desensiitzed by powerful
>media who indirectly control cultural norms. It's gotten to
>the point that any body that critiques homosexuality, now
>becomes the outsider.. smh
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>but on a base level, its pretty eggregious behavior. Up there
>with cannibalism, bestiality, etc IMO

or had more man/dog couples on tv..

that will be the norm as well. timing is everything

just to people being desentized

but i dont like all the cursing on tv as well
i wish it wasn't so much of it
on tv

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>but on a base level, its pretty eggregious behavior. Up there
>with cannibalism, bestiality, etc IMO

Never change, babe.

It's gotten to
>the point that any body that critiques homosexuality, now
>becomes the outsider.. smh


yes. Exactly! People who critique homosexuality should be outliers. We're all much better off this way.

Racist? Outsider.
Homophobic? Outsider.
Misogynist? Outsider.

That's how society works; it's how every new generation contains a few less cunts than the last one.

I am not above throwing popcorn nor am I beneath a verbal or physical kerfuffle as a result.

Also, I'm sorry that you experienced that homophobic bullshit when you were just trynna enjoy a movie w/ your date...fuck what they talkin about, homegirl wrong as fuck & she need to stfu.

throwing popcorn can get you killed these days.

They just didn't verbalize it.

i am sure that some of my friends don't necessarily ENJOY
seeing me give my boyfriend a peck on the mouth when i greet him.

but the don't verbalized it.
because i am their friend.
because they are adults.
because they keep their homophobia to themselves.

etc.



I don't care what ppl THINK, for the most part.
that's none of my business.

what they verbalize, i may take issue w/,
depending on whatever.

think it all day..

but screaming out sin in a movie theatre is some hoe shit.

u know better than that

i don't think they shouldn't
i don't think it's wrong
i'm not against it being in a movie, or on TV

but that's just always my reaction. it's part not finding it attractive, and part conditioning. it's more my problem than anyone else's though. i don't feel the need to verbalize it in public.

>i don't think they shouldn't
>i don't think it's wrong
>i'm not against it being in a movie, or on TV
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>attractive, and part conditioning. it's more my problem than
>anyone else's though. i don't feel the need to verbalize it in
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So, hold up. First this could be about anything. But how can you still cringe at anything, yet at the same time try a soft shoe the response by saying that you don't have ANY KIND OF ISSUES with the thing that made you Naturally Cringe?


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>it's part not finding it attractive, and part conditioning. it's more my problem than anyone else's though.

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hell i cringe at the sight of someone putting a contact lens in.

i don't think there should be any moral or legal prohibitions against either of those things.

are you really this daft? that you can't understand how something you're viscerally repulsed by is (at very least in part) an issue with you, not an issue with the thing you find repulsive?

I'm scared, but nit really scared, just sacred sometimes, but not all the time. That's how you sound and you let the jokers urge you on.. Keep it up.

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just because i don't enjoy seeing something doesn't automatically make that something wrong.

thinking 2 dudes should adjust their lives just so i wont squint my eyes for half a second, is the mindset of a spoiled child.

>just because i don't enjoy seeing something doesn't
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>squint my eyes for half a second, is the mindset of a spoiled
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But do you agree that it's people's right to find two men kissing to be disgusting?

If not, are your trying to tread on their 1st amendment right to free speech?


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has anyone suggested those girls be jailed for saying "eww"?

and no one said it's not it's people's "right" to feel however they want. or any other dumb strawman shit you're trying to throw out there.

>has anyone suggested those girls be jailed for saying "eww"?
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If they could, they would.


>and no one said it's not it's people's "right" to feel however
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Dumb.. And yet you are here..


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instead of shit they actually say.

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and i too, was a bit taken aback. just seemed odd for them
to introduce the scenes in that manner....seemed more like
they wanted a shock factor and contributed absolutely
to the crux of the film.

Gay Blk dudes exist on these campuses & only the viscerally homophobic/racist are shocked by that fact & it's like I'm glad those people are offended lol.

I though the kiss during the fight was unrealistic but when the lil editor dude kissed him I didn't think their was anything odd or out of place about that.

And I'll be the first to admit I didn't even think there would be a gay sub plot in this film but in rung true becuz there are gay blacks at PWI. I was one of them and I think his character also allowed for their line where ole girl says "u kno we're not all homophobic, right?"

But my whole point is even u did find it disturbing show some maturity and decency and not shout out ewww

GAYS ARE OUT THERE AND THEY KISS...lol. wtf. THE AUDIENCE IS FULL OF
DUMMIES AND THEY DON'T HAVE A CONSCIOUS. the subject was never
discussed, it was just thrown at the audience out of no where. by
and large, this was a film about intra/inter/race relationship
dynamics.

>Gay Blk dudes exist on these campuses & only the viscerally
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even when it may exceed its effective scope."

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Black ppl that are part of that experience. We're u bothered by him being gay or te kisses? What was needed to be explained or introduced lol. He was one of the characters and happened to be gay....

He wasnt the only person who had a kiss in that film...

Crash lemme find out u were one of the hood rats saying ewww! Lol

Obvs that character & character's narrative has significance even if you missed it.

Further, 2 dudes kissing doesn't have to advance a plot or be subversive to have merit in a movie not that you're insinuating that I'm just sayin.

They went toward George, the editor, seeing Lionel as a thing to be dealt with that he could have his way with instead of dealing with him as an individual.

When George first approached him from the perspective of an "it" that could help George get to the next level. Lionel's blackness was the "it" and everything else about him was negligent. George approached him in a way that suggested he could belong to the group but from day one, without provocation, the editor solicited him in ways that were improper. It culminated in him disregarding Lionel entirely by taking him to the party. Despite all that was going on in that moment, including Lionel's obvious discomfort, George minimized the environment, pounces on him, and attempts to "seductively" call him a hershey bar - a thing.

As far as the kiss during the fight, well Kurt had been tormenting him based on his being gay from the beginning. It was a cheap shot in a moment of powerlessness.

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and one of the lead characters is introduced as gay in the first fucking reel.

Why _wouldn't_ the film explore the "Mandingo" complex if it got a chance.

Don't try to disguise your discomfort by writing it off as deficiencies in the film. Just be honest & say you were uncomfortable.

wtf

>Don't try to disguise your discomfort by writing it off as
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/26/dallas-airport-fight_n_6051654.html

dunno what the hate crime laws are in texas, but dude might literally get years for that dumb shit.

it's a pretty standard misdemeanor battery case, i think. yeah he was shouting about 'faggot' this and that but it takes more for a hate crime, i think.

i wouldn't be surprised if homie pleads to a disorderly conduct or something like that.

now that's what I like to see.

Comin up from behind 'em

how long would it have been before:

A. He was gang tackled

B. He was tazed

C. He was gang tackled then tazed

D. He was shot

E. He was gang tackled then shot


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>http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/26/dallas-airport-fight_n_6051654.html

being that you were in front of them

By hearing them. Me and my date also weren't on no cuddly shit. We didn't even really touch. Now judging by the fact that they said eww they may have been the type to to say two dudes seeing a movie together Is gay anyway.

But maybe they were. I don't put anything pass ppl like that. They had the opportunity to get with me directly when I turned around and said damn tho. It was a lot of black chicks in that theater I couldn't tell exactly who said it so I gave them that opportunity

they prolly thought you were complaining about the noise or the kiss

live and learn
maybe you'll learn to live with these types and ignore them
but part of me says you shouldn't have to learn shit and people should learn to keep that shit to themselves

god bless you and your struggle tho

peace.

Were you equally bothered by any comments made at any other times in the theatre or only the ones that you disagreed with or took personally?
Were they disrupting the film anymore than anybody else?

I suspect you took it as more of a personal attack than an off-color reaction of two ignorant school girls. If so, yeah you needed to keep that to yourself.

Had some white people jumped up and screamed something about black people while I was watching, my first thought would be "why are you here?" and my next thoughts would have been "How ignorant/rude. You're interrupting the film." Largely because 1. the hypothetical comment wouldn't be a personal attack, 2. because in order for someone to see the error of their ways they have to be open to the discourse regarding such. In the absence of that they are happy to hold on to it for whatever reason. Reasons of which are none of my business.

I would rather their ignorance not exist, I would rather that they had an epiphanous moment instead of falling back to what's comfortable, I would rather they see the merit in the moment. However in the absence of any hint of those things occuring I usually reserve my energy for more worthwhile endeavors. Silencing a person doesn't change their mind.

>Silencing a person doesn't change their mind.


but it's still a conversation worth having sometimes.
i still talk to my mom even though i know she hasn't and won't
change her mind when it comes to the gay.

she just quit saying shit to me about it.
which is actually enough of a compromise for me to keep her in my life (albeit in a limited capacity).

Film. it was a politically/ racially charged film and there were no verbal reactions about anything else in the film except those girls saying eww at those two parts. So it made their actions even more jarring

b/c fuck them and fuck that. we ain't come this far to have cackleheads ruin our day.

ijs

Had you taken a moment to address them after the film instead of in the moment in anger do you think it would have done any good?

A provocative reaction in the moment probably wouldn't have done much, however after the movie had ended there may have been an opportunity. Even then what exactly is the maturity level of a group of girls who say "eww" while surrounded by other girls? Is it a true measure of their beliefs or of their desire to be noticed and appreciated by their peers? Could they have appreciated anything that you said to them? One on one, possibly but in a group, doubtful.

I doubt they know you to single you out and I'm sure that "gay" isn't the only thing that you are. Which is why I doubt it was a personal attack whether or not they guessed that you were gay. They were making their ignorance known and attempting to bond over their shared judgmental deficiencies.

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And them calling somebody etc.

by time the movie was over I had calmed down and again I didn't see exactly who said

It woulda been even more ridiculous for me to ask every Black female who came out the theater "were u the girls saying eww" when the dudes kissed?

>And them calling somebody etc.
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>didn't see exactly who said
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>female who came out the theater "were u the girls saying eww"
>when the dudes kissed?

Right, it wasn't a teachable moment. Had you confronted it in the moment it wouldn't have accomplished the goal of them not having voiced their ignorance in the first place. The film is meant to provoke a reaction, that was theirs.

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>I doubt they know you to single you out and I'm sure that
>"gay" isn't the only thing that you are. Which is why I doubt
>it was a personal attack whether or not they guessed that you
>were gay. They were making their ignorance known and
>attempting to bond over their shared judgmental deficiencies.
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whether they did for LOL's
or because of some deeply rooted hated of all things gay,
either way, they let you know exactly where they stand
when it comes to me and ppl like me.

so fuck them, too.

Dude is not callin for a sit in just a common stfu w/ the dumb shit & he right & hopefully those girls/women will grow up & not think 2 consenting adults of the same sex kissing is eww-worthy.

He would still have a issue with anybody black.


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and by that i mean i want them to STFU and keep their phobia to themselves. b/c i ain't tryna hear that. and if they're not challenged they won't learn to STFU w/that shit.

Simple as that

Or does it make them feel justified by their original assessment?


What about this?
http://freethoughtblogs.com/ashleymiller/2014/10/24/how-the-morehouse-football-team-ruined-dear-white-people-and-proved-its-point/

They're doing it to elicit a response. It's disturbing but in that moment are you going to change their minds of escalate the situation?

Not the apology at the end.

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as a result, they shut the fuck up about it.
which is exactly what i wanted to happen.

did i change their FEELINGS about the gay?

probably not.
they still think a sin.
they'd still rather me not be it.
i am sure they are still praying for me.

but they now know what they can and cannot say around me
if they want me in their lives.
in essence, they STFU.

which is enough.


and really, the only reason i had as much patience as i did
is because we are related.

fuck anybody else that has a problem, on general principle.

if anything, this proves my point.
b/c if ppl that "love" me still feel ____ about the gay,
the fuck i look like trying to talk sense into strangers.


ppl CAN change their mind,
but usually don't,
and anyway, i don't give a fuck about your negative FEELINGS
about the gay as long as you shut the fuck up about them when i'm around.

the "fuck you, too" sentiment applied equally to my mother and my sister.
the only reason *I* didn't write them off completely many years ago is familial obligation/ love.

i barely have the energy to educate my family about
certain things.

the fuck i look like reasoning w/ strangers trying to change their feelings?



if the message you send me is "fuck you and your ppl,"
the message i give back is "fuck you, too."

my ppl includes gays.
Blacks.
whatever.

Who wouldve immediately been cursing those women out and been prepared to beat their and their mans assess if it escalated. They were lucky I'm grown and got too much to lose to go full nutzo and that my date wasnt bothered enuff or any other gay who may have been in that theater

But if the lesson they got was that there are consequences for letting ur prejudices spill all out in public space then that's a lesson well learned IMO

A lot of gays have got to the point where we don't care about changing minds, we just want basic respect (shit u could say tolerance) and equal rights and protection under the law

I went to see dear white ppl in Atlanta in 2014 and not at a hood theater. I wasn't expecting gay bashing to be part of my night and when it became part I got very annoyed

So I saw the movie in the morning with one other couple in the theatre. I even stayed for a second showing after the first couple left and a second couple showed up. Watching a movie in an empty theatre is a marvelous experience.

You shouldn't have to deal with derision when you leave the house, but the world is not your oyster. It's not mine either. What your "rachet gay" friends do is up to them, but I doubt that those who are trying to elicit as response with their actions are swayed by receiving a response as a result of those actions.
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>Who wouldve immediately been cursing those women out and been
>prepared to beat their and their mans assess if it escalated.
>They were lucky I'm grown and got too much to lose to go full
>nutzo and that my date wasnt bothered enuff or any other gay
>who may have been in that theater
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>But if the lesson they got was that there are consequences for
>letting ur prejudices spill all out in public space then
>that's a lesson well learned IMO
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>A lot of gays have got to the point where we don't care about
>changing minds, we just want basic respect (shit u could say
>tolerance) and equal rights and protection under the law
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>I went to see dear white ppl in Atlanta in 2014 and not at a
>hood theater. I wasn't expecting gay bashing to be part of my
>night and when it became part I got very annoyed

why do a man whether gay or not
think it is okay to lay hands on a female?

i just don't understand that part
and will never will
a man is a man is a man
your preference is your own

but to think that you have a right
to fight a female as a man is just wrong
okay fight their men

it's scary
this is in regards to gay men who act in a way as a lady
genetically you are a man
with the strength of a man
so fight a man

imo

Especially if the women joined men in trying to jump the gay dudes or something. It's not necessarily right, but it fits well within the parameters of ratchet.

but how i read his response is that they would
have came at the females
which in my opinion
aint right

basically if they threw the 1st punch at the girls

now if the girls would have thrown the 1st punch
carry on

lol

On the regular. Let's call all them out. I really don't get how continue to associate with this obvious homophobe

It's not right when str8 men hit woman either, hopefully u highlight that and realize that too

I was next to dude in line about to buy some food. A friend of mine who was ahead of me realized he didn't have enough money so I told him I'd go first and he could use my change. So I moved ahead of him and the gay dude went ballistic. He'd been telling a story with uh...let's say some flamboyant details and hand gestures. Dude apparently thought I was moving because of him.

He proceeded to talk shit behind my back, but I just kept my cool, turned around and made a very vocal exchange of money with my friend behind me.

Gay dude instantly knew he fucked up and stopped railing against all the bigots in the world.

Of course I'm not saying this to make a huge point, just that Key and Peele be on point every now and again.

but for now i'm cool. thanks.

It's only indicative of time spent to comment and energy spent to type.

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...which is natural in many instances...not saying it's right....but it sounds like a knee jerk reaction that "some" people took way outta hand...but i get if those two seconds made folk feel somekinda way...even though i'd say get over it cause there are bigger issues....LOL folk don't even want you to EVER get married, and we in here talking about 2 people outta presumably a theater full's reaction to one quick scene....

i want that shit STFU.

Sometimes there's a function to simply reacting to something naturally. Even in the absence of some sort of result-based benefit....one can also just allow themselves to be annoyed/offended. It's not like he started a fight or something....so there's not much negative results from his taking offence. He said a 'damn'. Expressed his frusteration to his date. Made a post to vent about it. None of which has harmful results.

A lot of people have alluded to the idea that I'd sum up as 'It's not worth worrying about because there's nothing you can do about it'. That may be true for some people. But living completely logically like that may turn into a form of self-repression in it's own right. As long as our reaction is not harmful.....it's ok to allow yourself to be hurt/offended and vent/express yourself about it. Regardless of in doing so, nothing is 'accomplished'. You could argue that the accomplishment is in expressing yourself.

>Sometimes there's a function to simply reacting to something
>naturally. Even in the absence of some sort of result-based
>benefit....one can also just allow themselves to be
>annoyed/offended. It's not like he started a fight or
>something....so there's not much negative results from his
>taking offence. He said a 'damn'. Expressed his frusteration
>to his date. Made a post to vent about it. None of which has
>harmful results.
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>A lot of people have alluded to the idea that I'd sum up as
>'It's not worth worrying about because there's nothing you can
>do about it'. That may be true for some people. But living
>completely logically like that may turn into a form of
>self-repression in it's own right. As long as our reaction is
>not harmful.....it's ok to allow yourself to be hurt/offended
>and vent/express yourself about it. Regardless of in doing
>so, nothing is 'accomplished'. You could argue that the
>accomplishment is in expressing yourself.

I agree, but don't forget that the girls also reacted to something naturally. I don't disagree with him being offended, I would have also been offended. However i have to know when to stress myself out over a situation and when not to. I have remained stressed out from confronting someone for being phobic/cist for days after the incident. It is draining and can be counterproductive, especially when they're not receptive and I'm the one expending energy and emotion.

My perspective is that we can't fight every battle that's presented to us because we will miss out on living our lives. In that moment he seems to have been distracted from fully engaging in the movie (for a time) and fully engaging with his date (for a time). Instead of canoodling and having a lively discussion about the film, his date was talking him down about a situation that he probably had no real opportunity change. The girl's action was meant to distract and elicit a reaction. She succeeded, very well in fact because we weren't even there and we're still talking about it sans her involvement.

You should have grabbed your dates neck and slobbed him down loudly

Lol at allowing bammas to make you feel some kinda way I thought you was from the urrea

>You should have grabbed your dates neck and slobbed him down
>loudly
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>Lol at allowing bammas to make you feel some kinda way I
>thought you was from the urrea
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These enlighten, critical thinking, intelligent folks should already know that no one can make you feel anything - it's all about choice.

So why are they so mad?


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most of the time in life you are right and it still doesn't matter. that applies here. of course they should be considerate or reserved or civil or whatever, but they weren't and they never will be.

the scenes lasted 20 seconds. their "ewwww" or two lasted probably a combined two seconds. yet you're still upset about this. who is losing out here?

how can we be more like you?

Ur personal life....but I'll just thank u for ur admonishment and keep it moving

these are people are meaningless if not worthless. you're letting them ruin your film and your time with your date? h-why?

of course i have had little shit like this bother me in the past but not really anymore. not giving a fuck is a honed skill. similarly i don't gaf if people wanna slam some detail of my personal life. i wouldn't have put it out there if i were ashamed of it. i share a lot. that tells there is no shame in my game.

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that's vine picked ripeness right thurr!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KaVnA88oNTg

Not because it's two men kissing (*spoiler alert* - gay dudes kiss!) but because the white dude is fetishsizing Lionel.

I personally was disgusted he let that slick talking mofo say that shot about black people and then kiss him, though I get that the Lionel character has the self-esteem of a grain of sand and was happy to get a little attention.

But motherfuckers in here are legit mad not because of that, but because gay dudes kissed. Yet movies about war, serial killers, slashers, rapists (hellooooo, Tyler Perry), and more are les discomfiting to the palate. Humans, man.

I'm sure that point was completely lost on them

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Idiotic/useless response to it. Sit some posts out, make that ur rule number one for okp cause u stay making useless replies lol

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We need more films that make straight people feel uncomfortable, more TV shows that make them shift in disgust in their seats, more well done art that brings out the very worst in them. Homophobes aren't gonna lie down without a fight. But part of slaying our enemies is having the stomach to watch them squirm lol.

I'm arguing for a change in perspective. The whole situation is rather beautiful if you think about it: Here we have a young, Black gay director collecting money from straight Black people who pay to see his widely acclaimed film that features gay characters. I doubt that this would have been possible 10 years ago. But now that the door is unlocked, it's time to buss it wide open.

With that said, I'm glad you spoke up when they showed their asses. I think it would be dope to build a campaign of shame around homophobic reactions to the film.

it ain't like one of them bent back the other and they went all Rhett-Scarlett in close-up.

I mean one was done in aggressive moment , that's what made them even more ridiculous saying eww. It was such a small part of the film and the kisses weren't really sexual

Going all the way back to "Oz," which provided the masturbation material of my adolescence, I have been able to look to popular TV shows to find the queer portrayals that are missing in mainstream cinema.

But it's time to really give these phobes something to snicker about in theaters. I want scenes featuring same-sex tonsil hockey. I want Will Smith to actually make out with Anthony Michael Hall next time.

Let those with prejudice shine a light over their head so that it can be addressed.

It's far better than the covert prejudice that goes on, like pastors who want to act tolerant in front of the camera but clutch their pearls the moment someone wants to take a closer look at the sermons they put on when they think no-one else is listening.

I dont get why people HAVE to be enthusiastic about seeing 2 gay guys or 2 women kiss. Why does everything have to be equally beautiful? I don't get the need for it. If they were like "ewww, this is why they shouldn thave equal rights" yeah definitely I see something wrong, but its like the fact that they made a negative sound or had a negative reaction that they automatically wanted the whole gay community to be dead lol. Some people just dont care to see certain people in sexual acts....if its more than that with ignorance and hate behind it then i'm definitely on board to kill off those people...but to jump to that conclusion because of the sound "ewww" is ridiculous.

Theres gay people who see Seth Rogen kiss or do a sex scene that say "ewwwww" what the fuck is the difference? ....there isn't, fat ugly jew fro's have rights too....smh


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frankly it was a pleasant surprise

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The sex scene breakdown in popular cinema is, like:

- straight sex: 99%
- lesbian sex: .9%
- gay male sex: .1%

It's like the white people who want a White History Month. It's all about us, all the time. Is it really ruining things if the gay male cinematic sex percentage ticks up another couple of tenths of a percent?

If you're that afraid of seeing two men kissing, cool. It is very, very, very easy to find out if a movie you're planning on seeing has gay stuff in it. Just avoid those movies. You may miss out on a terrific film like Dear White People as a result, but if avoiding two men closed-mouth kissing is the priority, it's exceedingly simple to find out in advance if the film contains gayness.

I care less than ever before about whether they get it. I just want them to get out of my way.

She's an idiot. Even being straight I woulda noted what she said and smirked to myself how obnoxious that is. The gay male kiss seems to be one-step forward, one-step back in Hollywood. Can't think of the last iconic one.

I re-watched Philadelphia recently...it's so awkward how they avoid physical contact between Tom Hanks and his lover. It's like they're business partners. lol

Brokeback Mountain was actually pretty reserved compared to the hoopla surrounding it when it came out. I remember stuff in the press saying it was 'gay porn'. Thinking about it....I think that's the only big, mainstream film that has portrayed gay sex and kissing in an erotic way. That scene when Heath is waiting for him to pick him up after a year's absence. He's all nervous and drinking and chain-smoking. Then Jake shows up and Heath pulls him behind a staircase to kiss. That movie just gets better and better with time.

It's the most innocuous scene imaginable. They may as well have been pecking.

This isn't Shortbus. It's two dudes kissing, closed-mouth if I recall. And it lasts for seconds.

You know how The Fast and The Furious is just dripping with homoerotic imagery?

I want to make a Fast and the Furious film, but it's not subtext. They're all actually gay. A gay police officer infiltrates the secret underworld of gay street racing. He falls in love with the gay street racing champion's brother. None of it is played for laughs. They just all happen to be gay, and all of the homoerotic imagery finally makes sense. Still has tons of badass action sequences, still has a racially diverse cast, still has plenty of comedic relief, still has corny dialogue about family. They're just all gay characters.

Oh, and instead of girls in tiny bikinis walking around during the big racing sequences, it's muscular dudes in Speedos. It's like every Fast and the Furious race montage, with loud hip-hop and shiny new cars-- just replace the women in bikinis with men in tiny bathing suits.

I've had this pitch since, like, 2 Fast 2 Furious. It's a movie franchise that is just begging to be turned all-gay.