And I'm asking that as someone in agreement with 95% of what you're typing, but I still hold to the notion that one is ultimately what their chromosomes say they are. So if one is XY with a vagina ok I get it and likewise if one is XX with a penis, but outside of that... I'm not sure what's going on there.

So for me it's easier to understand this person plight if she's genetically a woman who was born with a penis and is being harassed or vice versa.