people can multi-task...some people are practical enough to know their limitations and still put forth the proper effort towards the areas they need to...

and even if they aren't...it's still a lid for every pot...i wouldn't advise it but single-income relationships work for some people *shrugs*

sometimes the right date/relationship can be that spark to get shit together to

and not everyone can be "together"

the world isn't built that way and there's nothing that is going to stop them from pursuing love, sex, intimacy

those things are on par with those other priorities even if we don't want to admit it...some of us are able to operate just fine without it but many can't

when i was broke and going nowhere...i wasn't able to maintain a relationship but i was able to date/smash while keeping my focus on getting my shit somewhat together...not doing that would not have sped up that process...probably would've slowed it down