guilt is you feeling bad about what you did.
shame is you feeling bad about how other ppl feel about what you did.

if you don't give a fuck what other ppl feel about what you did,
the act is not shameful.

some ppl feel neither guilty nor shameful about having sex
in a way that other ppl don't approve of.

so the act is not shameful.


just because YOU would feel shame if somebody ran a train on you,
that doesn't mean everybody else does.

it's almost like we are all different ppl or something.

>doesn't make the act less so.