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182787, not a big deal either way
Posted by MiracleRic, Mon Nov-09-15 08:33 AM
shame clearly didn't have a significant impact before the pregnancy...why would it be so devastating bc of a lack of a shower?

if i'm not concerned about finances...i probably wouldn't have the shower...if i think she's going to need all the help she can get...i probably would

i have no problem with shame...sometimes it's effective, sometimes it's not...people handle it differently