But isn't that what a baby shower is to invite family and friends in support of this new life? I'm sure the girl didn't get pregnant to have a party... Who does that?... most likely not having the shower for this reason may spark resentment in the 16yr old towards her parents .. Cause if they're making a big deal out of a baby shower I'm sure they trip about all kinds of stupid shit wit her... If ur that disappointed with your child why are you letting her have the baby? Makes no sense