i like reading some of yalls thoughts on subject matter. its why i decided to join (about 15 year too late it sounds like)
people get hurt/apathetic/vindictive/whatever. and its natural to want to respond in kind.

i don't think wild responses will end, but i think everyone once in a while a little "oh yeah i was def in the wrong in that post" works.

then there are those who will just continue to troll. to try to derail. i was a lurker in the pete/bartek/#### days, banning them (continuously) seemed to work ok. they always come back but at least there's relative peace for a while