but more importantly i don't want the ppl to be mislead. there are ppl out there who actually believe what you'd said - that all-female relationships are more 'peaceful'. and that belief actually does a disservice to women who are being abused by other women. b/c it makes it more difficult for them to speak up and to receive services and justice when they do. so while this post ain't shit but a trifle i want to be sure the right info is out there for the kids so they're not mislead.