some of yall will never actually get there

there will always be something that you're aspiring to that will determine success so marriage gets put off again and again

it's like, oh, ill look for a wife when i have a decent job
*gets decent job*
oh, i'll find her/marry ol girl once i can get a house
*gets house and maybe even cohabs*
oh, but i want to start my own business

i want a s class

i want to see taj mahal

i want to learn to speak swahili

and then you 30-40 and your options are wack

meanwhile you could have done all that with someone splitting the rent and rubbing your back

it's weird