but you are an adult now, and as a conscious person you are making choices.

I understand what it feels like to be driven by lust, but certainly you must stand back and think sometimes.

I don't think your attraction to men will just stop.
And this illusion of a happy-hetero lifestyle....

See, as a woman who is quite open-minded about such things, I'd much rather be in a relationship with a man who openly owned his bi-sexuality--had processed it to some level.I could deal with that.
But, if I was in a partnership with someone who I felt was wrestling with those demons--I'd never feel secure.Ever.