i been on both sides of this

certain shit u sign up for being a stepdaddy or mommies friend

certain shit u gotta live with and deal with with your child livin with another man

it aint easy on either end

and lil shit like clothes, hair style choices, shit even toys turns into big shit later on like.....i dunno....religion

I can rock wit fishgrease's reply by basically sayin rap to dude man to man

but the rest of this nonsense is way too far