sips of the brew (C) C.L Smooths uncle

you're talkin' about the foresight thoughts that couldve avoided this situation in it's entirety and not attacking the situation at hand.

The child is here. the problems are before us. Try offering a solution to bring this thing to an end instead of basically tellin' ol' boy "you shouldnt have fucked the broad and had a kid outta wedlock.

And it's foolish to think that the step father won't have ANY input in the upbringing of a child in his own home, if that so be the case be prepared for even more issues because that's essentially giving the child free reign to disrespect the stepfather totally on some " you ain't my daddy type shit"

and i stand by my OKP is a world all unto itself statement because the things y'all envision going on here seldom reflect or cross over into the real world.