But now...?
This whole thread done re-calibrated my whole shyt.

Unethical actions are okay as long as no scrutiny and shaming is involved.
For actions like these, shaming *is* appropriate.

No mentioning or accepting responsibility of how the other woman affects the children of the marriage and other family members.
No recognition.

Of course I vehemently hate slut-shaming, fat shaming and the like.
Still, (Radical? Extreme?) Feminism is doing an excellent job of policing appropriate shaming into the netherland to absolve accepting responsibilities.
I've seen this before but it's becoming so common - the disregard of the married woman in the scenario.

I won't go so far as to say that the other woman deserves as much wrath as the cheating-ass dude, but her actions are highly, HIGHLY unethical.

I need teefiveten or someone else to correct my ass on this shyt.
I must be looking at this shyt wrong.